idony

learning to be vulnerable again, learning to love again

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february

Written when I felt particularly sentimental about love!

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home

Spent Christmas with my family and got introspective.

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renewal

My very first post!

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Sometimes I write!

Full archive of everything I’ve ever published! A little bit of wisdom, a little bit of honesty, and lots of love.

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